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The True Meaning of Cuddling (from a Male Perspective) « OK, Get Serious!
Jan 2, 2011
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The True Meaning of Cuddling (from a Male Perspective)

I just read the following ad, which follows the theme of many, many ads that I see in the “Men Seeking Women” sections of dating sites:

“It would be fun to spend the night with someone in my warm comfy condo cuddling and enjoying each other’s company. Me – swm, 6’1, good looking, clean-cut, easy going, fun to be with. ”

Baby, if you love me you'll let me put it in your butt....

Ladies, let’s get something straight. There is no man who is legitimately advertising for cuddling. They are saying this to appear safe. And because they think you want to hear it, and that you’ll somehow think it’s sensitive or cute. Every single one of these guys wants to fuck you raw.

I’m not saying this is a bad thing; just remember the following rule: In every ad that you see “cuddle” or “cuddling,” simply replace those words with “fuck” and “fucking” and you’ve got what the guy’s after. If that’s what you want too, more power to you, and go for it. That is, if you’re okay with the lying liar lying to you because he’s just that hot. But don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Any guy who even makes the slightest attempt to dispute this with you is doing so because he wants you to “cuddle” with him until he gets a blowjob.

4 Comments

  • Totally agree! We only cuddle to cop cheap feels or because it may eventually lead to sex.

  • That’s not true at all. That’s really unfair. Some guys are interested in cuddling. Lots of women at times are the ones that want more.

    If two people honestly want to cuddle – let the cuddling commence. Set ground rules and if they’re disobeyed then leave, but don’t blow off all cuddlers!

  • Ladies,

    Remember the guys I was telling you about, who will try to convince you what I said isn’t true? This is the kind of stuff they will say.

    Colin,

    I appreciate the comment, but seriously? The name of your website is “hooking up and staying hooked.”

    Hope you don’t take offense to the brash tone, but that’s why this site is called “OK, Get Serious!” Let’s be real. That’s what women really want from us anyway.

    I’m not saying that guys don’t ever want to do that, I’m saying that is not their primary intent when they write their ads. No guy writes an ad in the hopes he can just find someone to cuddle with, period. “Nice” guys will write that because they think that’s what women want, not because it’s what they want.

    More power to you if you’re advocating long term relationships with the “staying hooked” part, but I stand by my commentary.

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